How Long Will It Take Me to Become Fluent in English?
/“Dear Molly,
How long will it take me to become fluent in English? I’ve studied for many years but I still don’t speak like a native. ”
Dear Curious Learner,
Don't worry! English (like any language) takes a long time to learn. First, you have to learn all the parts of a language: grammar, vocabulary, phrases, culture, etc. After that, you have to use learning strategies to help you put all those parts together. Listening comprehension, professional-level writing, speaking like a native- those things all come with time and practice. Which brings us to our last point: practice! The more opportunities you have to practice, the more you learn. As I say to myself in my Spanish learning, "¡Mis errores son mis profesores!" (My errors are my teachers!)
You may never speak like a native Californian or a Londoner, but if you are able to communicate your thoughts, wants, or intentions and the other person understands you, you're speaking English well! Now, I know that you may think "That's not speaking fluently!" and you're correct, it's not. But what’s your main goal when speaking any language? For me, being able to talk to people about something I'm interested in or passionate about and having them understand me well enough to carry on a conversation is the goal.
We learn languages to communicate our thoughts to others in different ways. Through learning a language, we can start to broaden our understanding of how the world works. One of my favorite Spanish proverbs says: 'Cada cabeza es un mundo'. Meaning, 'Every head is a world', or as I like to think of it 'In every mind, there is a whole world'. Every culture has its own way of thinking about the world, just like every human sees things differently. It's completely acceptable for you to be very competent when speaking about Engineering, or cooking, or cars, or whatever you're interested in, while at the same time feeling like you can't say a word about the things you're not interested in. Just like in your own language, there are things you can't talk about. For example, never ask me about astrophysics. I'll probably drool on you. But ask me about cooking, gardening, politics, or English language teaching, and I'll bore you with my eloquence.
Learning English can be tough, but if you pick a topic you're interested in, the language learning will become interesting as well, and you're more likely to want to practice. Trust yourself, and if you don't understand something, simply ask 'Could you repeat that, please?"
-Molly